I was accused by my wife of infidelity…
How I kept my erectile dysfunction from ruining my marriage?
It's a man`s problem, isn't it? Certainly, it is. But it's a woman's despair, especially because very often there is much more lost than just the obvious.
Women have four different reactions to a man's impotence, says Margaret Ramage, a sexual relationship therapist. First is a feeling that she is not attractive enough or sexy enough. Second is a suspicion, the conviction that her partner must be having an affair. The third is the feeling of relief if the woman never enjoyed sex in the first place. "Sometimes it can be a relief for both partners. “And the fourth is the fear that there's something seriously wrong with her man - which he must be suffering from diabetes, or working too hard.
And this is just the beginning …
My name is Neal Mattson*, and I am one of the thousands of man on this planet that fought with erectile dysfunction issues.
It wasn't easy …when erectile dysfunction (ED) gradually began affecting me and my marriage; I was totally on my own. I didn't know anyone with this condition, had nowhere to go, and no one to ask for help.
Nearly all men have periods of impotence after age. With long- term problems it has been found that many cases of E.D. have a medical basis, so partners are often right to worry that their men are ill.
It has to do with the way my erectile dysfunction shamed, humiliated and almost ruined my entire marriage and life.
I would like to say it is my wife`s fault, and I don't have anything to do with this …but it isn't possible…
My life is complicated, but I will try to describe it as best I can …What thoughts consume me every day …
Without using supplements, drugs as Viagra or Low-T therapy, that are really expensive.
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After applying this method for yourself, you'll begin experiencing the most powerful, full, and long lasting erections of your life – no matter what age you are, and whether you struggle with full-blown E.D., or just want to add a surge of vitality to your sex life.
Now if you're thinking this sounds crazy or too good to be true, I completely understand.
I used to be just like you, and I thought the only possible way to address my E.D. was by paying thousands of dollars per year to drugs …
So all I ask right now is that you stick with me for the next few minutes as I will give you the way to manage with ED troubles…
A few years ago I was about to lose my wife and to lose my marriage.
I had a steady job in sales and I am also married to the woman that was the love of my life.
Her name's Jennifer we'd started dating back in the winter of 2005.
Jennifer and I were perfect, I thought. We might not have the most passionate relationship in the world…but we were compatible, like best friends.
And I figured that's what matters. The passion always fades in a relationship, but companionship is forever, right?
Well boy, was I in for a rude awakening…
Pretty much what the title says…
We've been together for 8 years and married for 6.
All went well until one point when something went wrong.
Indeed we were never sexually active, but I always thought that this is normal in a relationship, so I didn't put too much thought into it.
In retrospect, my ED clues started in 2009, though I wasn't sure then that something was wrong. Occasionally, I wondered – but was scared to do anything.
Sadly, I hurt myself…
I noticed that my wife`s behavior changed in the past few months, which was very bothersome considering we went from a close relationship to acting as two strangers.
I remember it was a rainy day in October 2010, when I decided to go home early and to surprise her with a big bouquet of roses - white were her favorites – and a bottle of champagne to celebrate our 3 marriage years.
I entered the house with a big smile on my lips, when I found Jennifer sitting on the couch crying. In the first moment, I got scared to see her like this, but I strengthened myself, and I approached her.
I wanted to take her in my arms, but she rejected me and started to accuse me that I was cheating on her.
“What are you talking about Jen?” I yelled
She didn't want to say anything to me and continue to cry…
I've caught her arm and forced her to look into my eyes and to tell me what the hell is wrong with her.
She was staring at me, scared and angry at the same time, and tearfully she started to say to me:
“You put a password on your personal phone and for a while, you were cold with me. I feel as I do not exist anymore. Lately, you were guarding both your phone and your computer a lot more. You typed and clicked furiously while the screen was pointed away from me but the second I'd walk up next to you, you switched to Netflix or something like that. I also noticed that you became much less physically affectionate with me. To me, everything pointed to infidelity. I've never been cheated on before (to my knowledge) so I could have been over paranoid, but I don't think it was illogical to assume that something shady was going on behind my back?”
I remained speechless …I didn't know in that moment what to say or how to react …
After a few moments, I took her face in my hand and told her:
“You are, and you always will be the love of my life forever. I`ve never cheated on you, and I never will. After all those years how could you think this?”
It was the first time we had a serious dispute.
Things calmed down for a while, but we were still cold to one another and started to sleep in separate rooms.
After a week or so, my wife comes to me, nervous, throwing some luggage in front of me and telling me:
“Today you will leave this house, and you will never come back. I don't want to see you anymore! ”
“Are you out of your mind? What is happening? You want to get rid of me or what? ”
“Last night I saw you crouched over your laptop on the sofa doing more of your furious typing and clicking so after you fell asleep I took your laptop to see what you were doing. I saw on your laptop history some websites, some sexual ones open …I was disgusted to see this…From that point, I am sure you are having an affair. I never believed that you would betray my trust like that, and I don't want to, and I can't live like this anymore.
So get out of this house. You hurt me enough! “
As you can imagine, I didn't leave.
She was totally wrong!
But it wasn't entirely her fault that's for sure.
We got into a huge argument that primarily consisted of her cutting off my explanation attempts with nasty insults.
Once I calmed her down I explained everything. I showed her, my 5-page google doc with all of my links detailing methods to deal with erectile dysfunction and I showed her all of the text messages that I sent to my brother about this.
I was very upset that she thinks I am capable of cheating but I also realized that I made an awfully big mess for myself not telling her the truth from the beginning.
At that point, I didn't know how to repair this mess!
So this being said all I wanted was giving my wife back, the vital and powerful man she had been so desperately longing for, and missing, for more than a decade.
But before that we had a humiliating discussion:
“Of course, I love you,” she said, “we've been married for so long.”
“It's not a matter of love; it's a question of how unfulfilled I am. You just can't perform like you used to, you know? You rarely want to have sex anymore, and I think it's because you are afraid you won't be able to get an erection even if you want to. I don't know if it's because you aren't attracted to me anymore or what? You make me feel ugly, and unwanted. And now, I no longer want even to try to have sex with you. “
It felt as if she'd just put me in the grave…
It was that excruciatingly painful. Meanwhile, I was left speechless…That was NOT what I'd expected to hear at all.
Then she continues:
“Let's try to find a solution together. I want to save our marriage! ”
We started to look around the Internet for some reassurance.
We searched “erectile dysfunction and marriage?”…And what we uncovered surprised us a LOT.
One of the first things we found was a study conducted by Durex Condoms, polling women about sex.
Then, I saw multiple articles and studies saying that a full 50% of women cheat on their mates at some point…
She looked surprised to me …
Along with numerous studies presented at the American Sociological Association…and published in the journal of Sexual Behavior…Saying that the about 2/3 of women who cheat do that not because they want an “emotional connection” or “attention”…like I'd always thought…
It seriously made my head spin…And so, suddenly, I was forced to face an incredibly ugly reality…That was what had given to me complete head spin…
So we became desperate to find something that would help me to solve my problem down there.
The first option we looked at was those “male” pills we always saw advertised on the TV, radio, and magazines.
And because my confidence was so shaken, I became more and more afraid of being intimate, so I feel a bit strange to search and see all those things together with Jennifer.
I didn't want to use pills, but it seemed like my most important part just wouldn't work without them…
Which left both my wife and me, feeling extremely unsatisfied.
We made the desperate decision to spend every waking moment of our time looking for a solution for my erectile dysfunction…
Studying how things like Viagra and other prescription pills for E.D. worked, and exploring any possible alternatives that wouldn't make me sick, nauseous, and broke.
I told myself that if I could figure something out, some natural way to manage my E.D., it would all be worth it.
Because no matter what people say, you already know that sex is a VITAL component of your relationship at any age…
It's what brings you and your loved one together…It strengthens your relationship…
We looked at Low-T therapies and realized that they are worthless when it comes to helping with E.D.
Of course, I looked at standard erectile dysfunction pills like Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra (along with a dozen less well-known ones).
But besides the fact that they were all incredibly expensive, and that I'd already experienced some of the “less serious” side effects when using these medications in the past…
There were just so many other severe, life-threatening side effects associated with these drugs that using them terrified me.
Take a look for yourself…
In my most depressed moments, I thought that maybe I should even TELL HER to cheat on me…so that at least it wouldn't be a shock to me when she did it anyway.
After a frustrating first month of studying E.D. medications, low-t treatments, exercise programs, and even over-the-counter extracts like Extenze and Vital Male…
I decided that I needed to go back to basics and spend less time looking at the treatments for E.D., and more time looking at what CAUSES our erection issues in the first place.
So, I began studying everything from biology and anatomy textbooks to academic journals, medical articles, and published studies…
First, without getting too “High School Sex” on you, let's look at how an erection works.
1. Your penis has two chambers inside of it, and they are collectively referred to as the “corpora cavernosa.”
2. The corpora cavernosa runs the length of the organ and contains a maze of blood vessels shaped like cavernous spaces.
3. When the blood vessels of the corpora cavernosa relax and open up, blood rushes in through the arteries to fill them.
4. That blood then gets trapped under high pressure, creating an erection.
That information is all about what an erection is.
Those are all fairly common knowledge …
But the more I started thinking about this, the less sense it made to me why we would need to depend on pills or medications.
Well needless to say that I used myself as a human guinea pig, testing virtually every single option available to me.
I become depressive …I stopped believing that I would find something right for me …
I also tried Eastern medicines like acupuncture, which didn't do much for me except creep me out, cost me $60 per session …And I tried Eastern breathing exercises, meditation, and yoga. Those things relaxed me some, but certainly didn't help me get or maintain erections.
I found several articles saying that some groups of food can help you manage this but then the question came over.
How to take? What to take? In which order?
All of which meant that if I could find the right combination of these naturally occurring biological building blocks…And figure out how to get them into my body in the correct way…
It only made sense that they would immediately improve my ability to generate and maintain erections both in the short term and in the long term.
Remember, all it takes to get an erection is relaxed blood vessels, which then allow the blood to flow in and create pressure in your “member.”
So with the help of Jennifer, we wrote out all of those foods and supplements that we researched…the ones that contained the different enzymes and amino acids that were shown to relax blood vessels and increase blood flow…and we went shopping.
Needless to say… that I made all those efforts because my wife supports me and she tried to increase my confidence …
And that very first night, I started testing out different dietary combinations and writing down each one in my journal. After all, it just made too much sense why this should work, and I had ZERO other options.
After 9 days, when I wake up in a morning, something incredible happens: Suddenly I realized that I was getting hard…
I looked at my wife; she was still sleeping, so I didn't want to wake her up …
Needless to say, when this happens for the second time, I run to my wife, and I told her the entire story. At first, she was very skeptical and couldn't believe this was happening…
And after about thirty minutes of talking, she turned to me with a wry smile and said: “Okay, let's try this…”
To be honest, I was nervous when she said that…
The moment she kissed me, however, I became rock hard again, and all of my nervousness quickly went out of the window. Now I'll spare you the details, but let's just say that for the next 30 days, there was only one activity that my wife and I were doing in our spare time…
This brings us to the reason I made this website you're reading right now. You see, at first, I thought about trying to sell this “natural home formula” I'd concocted to a company or a manufacturer of non-prescription “male enhancement products.”
I decided that the best bet for sharing my life story to as many men with ED problems was to make this website known.
This is exactly what I'm going to do right now.
Together with my wife we decided to name it
It's a natural method to rapidly manage your E.D while giving you back the power and vitality you thought you'd lost forever.
Inside, you'll get a full list of the different amino acids, enzymes, and proteins to add to your diet.
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What's great is that because there are just a few essential organic compounds that I've found to be wildly productive.
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*this is a pen name because the author wants to remain anonymous for the public